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BDSM Partner Checklist


Please note that this checklist is not intended to replace Negotiations; rather enhance them by allowing both parties to give/gain some basic information prior to further discussion.

You may download the full checklist to your pc as a word document or a pdf file just select the appropriate link.
See link below.

 

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General Information

I am a Dominant, Master or a Top

I am a submissive, slave or bottom

My Experience level is:

Beginner

A little bit

Average

A lot

Extensive

My Sexual orientation is:

Straight

Gay/Lesbian

Bi-sexual

Bi-Curious

I prefer a relationship to be:

Monogamous Polyamorous Does not matter

In scene I prefer to wear the following: (check all that apply)

Denim

Gothic

Lace

Latex/Rubber

Leather

Other (Explain):

Attached details on a separate sheet please

I have Medical Conditions or Physical Limitations my partner should know about

Yes No

If Yes is ticked Attached details on a separate sheet please


ACTIVITY LIST

Click only one box per activity/column as multiple boxes can be checked causing the results to be confusing to the O/one who receives them.  If Y/you accidentally click more then one simply click again on the one Y/you don't want marked.

In the interest column :

"Limit" denotes a hard limit (lowest).
"Maybe"- you would only do it for the Dom/me/Top.
"Curious"- you would like to explore it further.
"OK" - an interest or like of the activity.
"Do it" - you definitely want that activity (highest)

Activity

Have you participated

Interest in Participating

Abrasion

Yes

No

Limit

Maybe

Curious

OK

Do It

Anal Sex

Yes

No

Limit

Maybe

Curious

OK

Do It

Beating

Yes

No

Limit

Maybe

Curious

OK

Do It

Blindfolds

Yes

No

Limit

Maybe

Curious

OK

Do It

Biting

Yes

No

Limit

Maybe

Curious

OK

Do It

Breast Bondage

Yes

No

Limit

Maybe

Curious

OK

Do It

Branding

Yes

No

Limit

Maybe

Curious

OK

Do It

Bondage

Yes

No

Limit

Maybe

Curious

OK

 

Breath Control

Yes

No

Limit

Maybe

Curious

 

 

Brown Showers

Yes

No

Limit

Maybe

 

 

 

Caning

Yes

No

Limit

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This excerpt shows the type of areas covered by the checklist. It is fairly comprehensive, and contains several pages of of D/s activity category.

 

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