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What's in a name Master/Mistress, Domme, Top? Ouch is not a safeword
S/m isn't what is used to be BDSM Emblem Gorean Philosophy
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Trust Net Vs Real Life BDSM Checklist
Wants & Needs Responsible? Domestic Discipline

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 Balance of Power Power Exchange
     
Dominant    
Three Phases of a Dominant Ethic & the Modern Master Punishment Vs Discipline
Potential Dominants Virtual Domination What is a Dominant?
Dom or Master? Self Discipline Dom Fever
Need for Approval To Punish or not? Mentors
Confessions of a "Green" Master So you want to be a Master? The Illusion of Control
M/s relationship: Pitfalls Dominant Vs Domineering Duties of a Dominant
Advice of the New Dominant Ownership Master Vs Abuser

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 What makes a good Dominant  
     
submissive    
To the new submissive Master Vs Abuser The Gift of submission
Labels Peace of Mind Upon Release
The Myth of the 'missive sub or slave? The Gift theory
sub Space sub Drop What i like
Ownership Slave Contract Advice for the novice submissive
Ultimate submission Mistress/Master & slave relationship Survice a breakup
Realities of submission So you want to be a slave? Fear of failure
Safewords & Safeguards Potential Dominants Limits

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 Attributes of a D/s Relationship  
     
Mistress    
Unrealistic Expectations Mistress/slave Relationship Meeting "Mistress Right"
Facts about male submission Thoughts on Numbers The Courtship of a Dominant Woman
How a Domme thinks Ownership Male submission
Rules in a D/s Relationship Qualities of a Good Mistress Potential Dominants
A look at Male submissives What makes a good Domme  
     
New Lifestylers    
Why BDSM? Slow Down FAQ's
Honour & Trust Beginners Guide Beware the Player
Creating something from nothing Personal Labels in D/s Learning the Lifestyle
Understanding Equality Qualities i want in a Dominant Net Vs Real Life Relationships
Know your pleasure Curve Worth Vanilla to D/s
Obsessively Exciting Compatibility in D/s  
     
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Ready for the leap? Diabetes Compatibility in D/s
Telling the kids D/s Around Children Different Worlds
Online to Real Life Pregnancy and BDSM D/s: A 24/7 Perspective
With this ring... i thee Children First A 24/7 BDSM Relationship
     
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Taking Ceremony Charge after a Collaring Definitions of Collaring
Gorean Collaring Ceremony Group BDSM Ritual Ceremony General Guidelines
Collars Ceremony of the Roses Use of Ceremonies and Rituals
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Safewords First Meeting Safety Let's give online D/s some Credit
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Philosophically Speaking Knowing ourselves, Finding our One The Three R's
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Let's give online D/s some Credit Protocols 101 The Safe Introduction of Toys
Peace of Mind through Control The Baskin Robbins theory

How does D/s Differ from BDSM?
Three Phases of a Dominant Tolerance and the Loss of Discretion Orgasm Control/Delay
Meeting Safely in Real Life Creating Something from Nothing Equality
Personal Labels in D/s The Awakening: What Am I? Online Dangers
Dominant Vs Domineering Your Dominant's Owner's Manual Is what I see on the Net Real?
     
Reflections    
The Kite Master's Creed The Invitation
Take my Hand BDSM, What's that? On my Knees
I...sub Introspection of Mastery Art of a Diamond Cutter
submissive's Rights Touch of the Master's Hand With Knowledge, We Grow
Three Roses Come see the World submissive's Prayer
     
Switches    
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Dominissive Switch Thoughts on being a Switch? Switch and BDSM
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